Why we’re really losing friends

I used to think I have to give up myself for my friends. To be there whenever they need me and drop everything. Of course, in emergencies I still do. That is, if I have the capacity.

Three women standing in front of the bank of the River Rhine, smiling and making faces.

You don’t have to give up yourself

Learning that I can be my own person and learning that the most important person in my life is me were revolutionary. I am currently on an online…